Life transformation asks for personal growth
The metamorphosis of you and your life asks for lots of personal growth when accessing the next stage. You need different strengths than in the first stage and it can sometimes feel overwhelming as you are making space for the newness to arrive. But you must go through this part to transform aspects of your life.
You know when you are on the second stage of your life transformation journey. Things are finally moving, and it is asking for personal growth.
In the second stage of the actual life cycle of the butterfly, it becomes a caterpillar. This caterpillar’s job is to eat, eat, and grow. Interestingly, the caterpillar eats the leaf where the egg once was.
In your life, you are expanding outside. You are taking actions, not just dreaming. You gather information, talk to people about your dreams, and plan the next move. You know that the massive transition is coming at any point now.
Your growth journey is highly present. Like the caterpillar, which is eating its home leaf, expanding, and growing, you start to let go of the old within and around you. This is so important because you cannot transform your life by living it as it is. You need to create space within and around you for this process to occur. And this, if anything, asks for you to grow as a person. It will not be comfy to let go of the old, you will face lots of uncertainty and chaos. It won’t be easy, but you can do it. Besides, not all things of your old life need to be let go.
Then it happens. That day arrives. Either you decide that now is the time, or you feel strongly guided by the Universe to leave the old behind. You might leave your old job or relationship behind, stop eating processed food, move to a different country, become an entrepreneur, or do anything you dream. Remember that once the physical aspect changes in your life, it will be followed by other changes. You notice how you need to let go of the old ways of thinking and some of your old behaviors to move to the next stage.
Now time disappears, and you are in this vacuum when things are moving and you are trying to stay in the flow. And then arrives the in-between stage, when the old is gone, but the new is not yet here.
Which chakras should you focus on at this PERSONAL GROWTH stage?
Your Root Chakra will be on fire during this personal growth stage. This is because you are getting rid of your old roots before growing new ones. As Root Chakra is all about security, survival, and basic needs in life, you will feel insecure when you are letting go. In this stage, you need to learn to find the safety within you and should not attach yourself to others.
As you have also been opening up your Crown Chakra, you should now focus on the 3rd Eye Chakra and listen to your intuition guiding you with all the knowledge.
How to know if you are currently on the personal growth stage?
- You are not hiding your dream anymore.
- You search for information and knowledge.
- You plan it.
- You are letting go of old – especially those things you need to let go of to move further.
- You feel insecure.
- The big transition happens – you are leaving something behind. You are in uncertainty and chaos.
How can you go through this stage and move on to the next stage?
The thing is that life is always a journey of personal growth. But in this phase, your PERSONAL GROWTH is written with CAPITAL LETTERS.
- Research your big dream and create an ideal plan for yourself.
- Make sure your Root chakra is balanced, and do lots of grounding exercises.
- Work on your inner safety (Root Chakra). When the transition happens, you need to be able to feel safe within and not hold onto security around you. As in some cases, there is very little safety around you when things are all transitioning.
- Work on letting go of the old, whatever that old is for you.
- Support yourself when you face the uncertainty and chaos of the transformation.
- Meditate to keep yourself calm, access the Universal knowledge, to strengthen your 3rd Eye.
- Listen to your intuition!
It can be challenging to let go – but needed if you want to grow onto the third stage of your life transformation journey. Remember, you can do this and that all is well. I am here for you, when you need help with your transformation journey.
updated: 7 Sept 2022
Essi Koski-Lammi
Essi Koski-Lammi is an Interior Designer, Intuitive Healer, and Inner Alignment Coach with over 20 years of experience in energy work. She guides purpose-driven women and businesses to reconnect with their authentic essence through inner alignment coaching, strategic business channeling, and conscious interior design. Essi’s mission is to create harmony and beauty in both inner and outer spaces, allowing clarity, success, and well-being to flow naturally.
